Veterans
Opinion

The Hard Choices for Veterans and Families

The Hard Choices for Veterans and Families
DoD photo by Airman 1st Class Jennifer Gonzales
|Updated:
Commentary

When your husband decides, in his forties, that he’s going back into the Army, you’re supportive. It doesn’t occur to you to argue or tell him the whole idea is crazy. It makes sense to you. You think back to that day in 2001 when you were newly married. It was exactly 6 months since your wedding day and he had flowers delivered to commemorate your 6-month wedding anniversary. Your infant daughter was four months old and you took her to Childwatch at the gym that morning. You were running on the treadmill when the overhead television caught your eye: a skyscraper with the top snapped off and smoke billowing out like a giant chimney.

Wendy Arena has been a registered nurse for 23 years, currently works on an inpatient psychiatric unit, and is pursuing a writing career. She is married to a combat veteran who works in a prison. They share some very interesting dinner conversations.
Related Topics