Forgetting the 5-Year Plan

Forgetting the 5-Year Plan
A life of purpose and meaning can also guide us from this moment to the next. Shutterstock
Nancy Colier
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The workshop started with a simple question: “What do you want?” That question was followed shortly with, “What is your deepest intention?” And then, “What do you want to create in your life?” After that, out came the magic markers, poster boards, glue sticks, glitter, and all sorts of other art supplies. We were to start drawing, mapping, and fleshing out a future life and future self, complete with the action steps that would lead us to our deepest wants and intentions.

From the time we’re very young, we’re conditioned to be strivers. We’re trained to want and keep wanting for more and better. Better versions of ourselves and better experiences for ourselves—this is where we’re supposed to aim our attention.

Nancy Colier
Nancy Colier
Nancy Colier is a psychotherapist, interfaith minister, thought leader, public speaker, and the author of "Can't Stop Thinking: How to Let Go of Anxiety and Free Yourself from Obsessive Rumination,” “The Power of Off,” and the recently released “The Emotionally Exhausted Woman: Why You’re Depleted and How to Get What You Need” (November, 2022.)
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