Spoiler Alert: Your Child is Not a Virtual Angel

Spoiler Alert: Your Child is Not a Virtual Angel
Parents have to set rules and limits to the screen time their children can have. Josh Rose/Unsplash
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For good reason, parents think the best of their children. Parents unconditionally love their kids and, while that helps our children’s development thrive, it also means that sometimes parents can be blinded to their childrens’ hearts and capabilities. And nowhere is this more evident than in the virtual worlds where our kids are spending so many hours of their days.

We all want to believe that our child is the exception and that he can withstand the dangers and the persuasive design elements created by brilliant neuroscientists to keep all human eyes glued to their entertainment technology. Nevermind the fact that he cannot remember to brush his teeth. So why do we believe that we gave birth to the one and only child who is immune to screen risks?

Because all Parents have a Blind Spot When it Comes to Their Children.

We want to believe that our 7-year-old has such a good heart, that he would never deliberately hit anyone on the playground unless provoked. We want to trust him and believe that he doesn’t go around our screen rules. But teens tell us otherwise.
Melanie Hempe
Melanie Hempe
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Melanie Hempe, BSN, is the founder of ScreenStrong, an organization that empowers parents to keep the benefits of screen media for kids while empowering parents to delay screens that can be toxic—like video games and smartphones. The ScreenStrong solution promotes a strong parenting style that proactively replaces harmful screen use with healthy activities, life skill development, and family connection.
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