Couple Planning for a Divorce Change Their Minds When Lawyer Asks 4 Questions

June 9, 2019 Updated: June 15, 2019

“Nobody marries planning a divorce.” These were the words of a divorce lawyer in Brazil. With this mindset, the lawyer doesn’t mind helping his clients reconcile even if that means losing a potential client.

Rafael Gonçalves is a lawyer from the small Brazilian town of Sao Sebastiao do Paraiso and has become famous for helping get a married couple back together by asking them four simple questions.

Опубликовано Rafael Gonçalves Пятница, 21 сентября 2018 г.

The young couple had gone to Gonçalves’s office to ask for a divorce and stated their reasons. But Gonçalves noticed that the couple seemed to still be in love and decided to help them.

He gave them a list of documents needed for the divorce, and at the bottom, he wrote down four questions for them to answer before they return.

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Опубликовано Rafael Gonçalves Среда, 24 февраля 2016 г.

He asked:

“1. Did I do everything I could to save this marriage?

2. Is a divorce really the best option today?

3. Who is influencing my decisions?

4. How many problems did you overcome together and how you met?”

The couple came back a few days later deciding against the divorce. They also snapped a photo of the questions and posted it on social media, hoping that this would help to salvage other marriages.

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Опубликовано Rafael Gonçalves Вторник, 3 апреля 2018 г.

Speaking to Good News Network, Gonçalves explained his actions, “I don’t think I did anything special and, in my opinion, all my colleagues should act the same. Nobody starts dating planning to break up, and nobody marries planning a divorce. We live in a society that trade or throw something away instead of fixing it, and this is sadly applying to relationships, too.”

“Sometimes all it takes for a marriage to work is to find someone to pause a moment of conflict and allow them the opportunity to adjust. Truth be told, I still get requests of people needing help in their relationships and people letting me know that their lawyers started using the same questions,” he added.

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